ImPoRtAnCe.....

As friends of mine asking about my new blog, I told them that it will come soon. During first week of December something happened which force me write on that part and hence here I am writing about that hope u all enjoy to read these……..

Date 6^th December: As my daily routine I went to my office as usual on 10 A.M in morning and sat in my cabin although I was not feeling well, worked till 16.00, finished all my financial work for company and I was feeling that today is my last day of week in office although it was second day of week only. I left the office @ 16:30 and coming down through stairs when my phone vibrates, I took a call and person from other side told, Sir I am calling from Flikpart, I suddenly remembered that I ordered 3 books from them. On one side I am dying to go home as I was not well and on other side that boy from Flikpart told me to wait for 15 minutes more, but I have to wait for that since those were books I ordered. I think u all eager to know about books , lets owe the names of books,

(1) Revolution 2020 – Chetan Bhagat (2) LIWYMI – Preeti Shenoy & (3) Autobiography

At last I came to my room @ 18.00 hrs. and down on my bed without removing my shoes as there was not that much energy to do so. I made myself strong and went to hospital nearby my room.

I entered in CHINTAMANI hospital , sister asked me in Casualty Whom do u want to meet ??? I told, I want to meet doctor. Sister showed me the way and I entered inside doctors cabin. He asked me who is the patient??? I told him myself is patient , He gave me smile and asked me to get down on bed. I feel so much relaxed as these most I want at that time. He asked me about relatives I told him that I am Alone here in pune and some friends are here but they are out of pune for work. He said fine and asked me to get admitted as temperature already reached 101.

As I was on bed sisters started their work, they came with needles, syringes , injections and saline bottle. I get tensed , not because of nurses but with the things they bought after all that was my first experience in Hospital from birth and finally I shifted to Deluxe room of Hospital. The process to lower down temp. started with cocktail of injections and saline bottles round the night and don’t remember the time when I slept.

Today is 7^th December , Morning 6.00 Dr. Sayli came and woke up me for check-up, I get fresh and sister told me to get inside something as injections are waiting to show their actions inside my body to kill their counterpart TEMPERATURE. Sister handed over me a full page of medicines to get from Medical. I told her Sister I am Alone at present. She told me it’s fine I called MAMA for your help, I told OK.

After a period of time a man of 45-50 yr. age came to me and asked for prescription pad, I handed over him with money and from that day he was the only person who helped me for my medicines. Lots of thanks for his help. That was the time when I felt that you don’t know the time when you need the help from an unknown person without asked him anything.He was the person who explain me the importance of Time Management with simple line, Seconds delay take life Away ...>>>

That second day all sisters had only one questions for me that You had breakfast???, You had lunch???, You had dinner???, but how they know that I don’t want to eat anything , I just only want rest due to weakness. But what they do it’s their duty to care patient as much. Thanks for your concern sisters.

Till that day I was alone in room , but in evening one boy a year older than me came besides me, I think is good to not disclose the reason for him admission but do not think unwanted(I know you people are smart in speculations) as issue was very nominal.

He came with his cousin and uncle, simultaneously his parents, relatives all were in hospital and occupied the whole room, thank god rooms was very large enough. The situation in room was totally contrast, On one side there was that Kabaddi player surrounded with all his near and dear and other side me alone on my bed seeing towards them which made me emotional somewhat as I miss my near and dear one who are always concern (My Parents) about my health was not with me. LLL I just talk with the on my phone and assured them that I was not serious, their voice only feel me that they are near to me.

But I noticed that boy was shouted on his parents, his mother told me to tell something to him as he is restless. I told him that, yaar (friend) you are lucky that your parents with you they are caring for you don’t upset them by showing your restlessness, be strong enough in front of them. I know it is like GYANNNNN, JJJ but it is daammm true. And with that, night of 7 Dec. went off with temperature with me. (I think temp. don’t want to leave meJJJ)

But on same night it was 23.00 hrs. And I felt shivering in my body initially I thought it was due to cool weather outside but it (shivering) on its peak and my bed vibrate like earthquake. Boy beside me call sister , sister called Dr. Amrut who was in IPD, That was the first time when I lost my courage and feel to cried L, but didn’t. But thanks to Dr. Amrut as he gave me strength that time, he hold my body which was vibrating like anything and instruct sister to inject four injections inside body and suddenly shivering came down and I slept .

Next day situation of mine create doubt in mind of doctors and they dictate to get some tests more to clear their doubts. Thank god those reports were normal. I spent again two days in hospital to get normal and temperature became constant.

The thing which insist me to write these blog is that, When you are alone and that to in difficult situation, that time only you realise the important of unknown person in your life. I am saying all these because during that six days I feel the same.

I just want to thanks Dr. Sayli, Dr. Rupali, and Dr. Amrut who came frequently and asked me. Thanks to all sisters from JANKI and KERLA who took care of my medicine 24x6 in hospital. Thanks to all staff of CHINTAMANI hospital pune for their service. And last but not the least Dr. Sachin Yadav, Dr. Garad and Dr. Bharat for their consultation.

It is just my feelings which I want to feel for them…….:)JJJ

Those six days remind me a lines which I read in some book which says, God doesn’t give you the people you want, he gives you the people you need , To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you the person you were mean to be……

LoVe ThE LiFe NoT SpEnT......

When I was kid, may be world was big for me

I remember the road from my home to school which had CHAT KE THELE, BARF KE GOLE KI DUKAN, MITHAI KI DUKAN etc. but now those replace by MOBILE SHOPEE, VIDEO GAME PARLOR etc. but all silent.

“I Think world is shrinking now.”

When I was kid, may be evening was long for me

I remember I played till long evening, that Long Cycle race, that long cricket matches but now there is no long evening. Day ends with work and directly night is come.

“I Think Time is Shrinking now.”

When I was kid, may be friendship was tight

Whole day we friends play games, that food from friends home and the same punishment for all friends in school.

Now I still have those friends but don’t know where they are???

The thing is changed to “Hiii” on traffic signal or exchange SMS on Holi , Diwali and new year.

“I Think Relation Is changing now”

When I was kid , games were also different like Chupan Chupai, Langdi, Gilli Danda, Cricket etc. but now there is no time from Google, Facebook , Yahoo etc.

“I think Life is Changing now”

The large truth about life is that there is no tomorrow, it will be in our dream only.

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So, Live the Life not Spent

For My Mother...

You loves me right from the start.
You holds me close to your heart.
The bond that grows will never end.
Your love is so strong it will never change.

You gives me a never ending Love.
You never feels that you has given enough.
For me you will always do your best.

You are there when things go wrong.
A hug and a talk to help me along.
Always there when I need you near.
Gently wipes my eyes when I shed a tear.

Gifts and presents are nice but that is not enough.

So on this day I shower you with Love.
that you can possibly imagine.

But simply say

Happy Mother’s Day

mISS mY MANAGE dAYS

It seems from last some days my all MANAGE friends are updating status about the moments which we had during last 2 years of journey. It reminds me those days starting from first one month of first year to microfinance exam which unfortunately I gave twice. Whenever I saw such past, I really become very emotional and have no word except a few tears in eyes.

Today here I am describing small but important events of MANAGE from last two year journey which I always remember……

Let’s start with the group which was always on tip of any professor while presentation , yes I m talking about group 1 which mostly comprises of ABHIJEET, AJAY, ME, ALOK, AMAR, ANSHU, APARAJITA, and GEETANJALI. I really miss the group starter AJAY, the person who trap the professor in his net while giving explanation is ABHIJEET, mahagyan data ALOK sir in front of all shut their mouth ,and all mentioned people in further presentations now onwards.

Let’s come to ACADCOM (Abhijeet,Vasudha,Raj,Tusshar and Laxmi) for their non forgettable help in MANAGE for two years. Especially RAJ for his help which I think no one will forget. Thanx Raj again.

Now our CULTIES (Naved,Punit, Namrata,Neha,Ashish,Gaurav and Kranti sir) for their all DJ parties, B’day parties and all cultural events.

Our SPORTSCOM (Rahul only, Naveen ,Sujay,Shubhangi ) for organizing “MANAGE sports event first” time in MANAGE which was a unforgettable event.

The important one ALUMNICOM (Saumya, Avinash, Suneel ,Nithya, Ashish). These are the people who get in touch with our alumni who are the source of inspiration for us and be in touch by organizing grand alumni meet.

The SPICECOM (Shubhangi, Pallavi, Amar, Pandey ji, Prasanjeet and Preeti) for their lovable articles and creatives in magazines SPICE.

Now the comitee which is taking care of all our food stuffs, Yes FOODCOM (Vishal sir, Sandeep singh, Prasenjeet, Ketan and Divya). Thanx for all your changes in our food menu during last two year.

Now the one important comitee who took care of all my batchies during first year when half of batch (09-11) was ill due to fever and taking care during the time of swine flu. I really thanx HEALTHCOM (Ritabrata Mitra, Ganesh and Priyanka Uday) for all their support.

Now here is the announcement of one very important comitee of MANAGE which took care of all students future and yes it is PLACECOM (Rakesh Singh, Jitender Singh, Alok Sir, Sanket, Rahul Kumar and Jyotsna). There is no words for them to thanx, but I can just salute them for all their efforts for last two years in MANAGE.

Thanx to all our C.R.(Batch 2009-11) Aparajita , Rahul Kumar, Rahul Kapse , Kumar U.M Sir and Vasudha for their support and crucial help.

Now after all committee there is time to describe some important aspects of some NONCOM people which I really miss after leaving MANAGE.

First my room partner and president of NONCOM yes, RAHUL KAPSE sir who not only my room partner but also my senior and like my big brother. I never forget all his presentations in classrooms which are always out of box thinking, and all his comments in room till late nights.

I remember all the comedy of IRNAIK (kya Bhai……) which he did in my room.

Remember the comments and stories of AVINASH (Ethiopian) which he told in rooms and rock garden and his first year dance in sari.

Really miss my best friends JITENDER SINGH BHATTAL (SN-1 & SN-2) , HIMANSU BHUSAN BEHARA,YOGESH, DATTA, TUSHAR (Chintu),KRUTTI and RITABRATA MITRA (main MITRA ka Model Town, Nagpur ka sabse accha dost hu, aisa Mitra bolta hai….)

Miss my part time living rooms, room no. S-18 (DATTA & YOGESH), S-26 (JYOTI & KRUTTI) and nautanki of SHREYANSH which he did in these two rooms.

Miss my Lawn Tennis team (KRUTTI,JYOTI,HIMANSU, SHREYANSH and Datta) who teach me how to play tennis.

Never forget my FOOTBALL team because of not only full enjoyment but also due to cartilage bone fracture which I had during playing first time in my life.

Miss CRICKET team which we play in very small ground with full enjoyment.

Finally I would like to thanks all my batcies of 2009-11 batch who gave me non forgettable memories.

Really thanks by heart to all my juniors of 2010-12 batch for their support and miss them a lot.

Miss, MAC committee members who frequently comment on my fb status. But still today unknown what is MAC???

Last but not the least thanks to all MANAGE administration staff especially Dr. Vikram Singh, Dr. Venkat Rao sir and Shivkumar sir for their support in last two years which I, infact whole 2009-11 batch never forget.

Thanks to all working staff of mess (Khan sahab, Raju, Ishwar, Ravindra, Prashant, and all babus) who take care of us for last two years.

Last but not the least always remember small rock garden parties, walk after dinner, playing in evening and full green MANAGE campus a lot , but always be a part of MANAGE and always proud to be a MANAGEite

For and Tsunami Victims of JAPAN

Here I m writing for the people of Japan and all that are affected by last earthquake and the resulting tsunamis:

Have mercy,
on all the displaced,
the injured,
the bereaved.

Have mercy,
on all who lose homes
and farms
and businesses
and livelihoods.

Have mercy,
on all who join in relief and rescue efforts,
who risk their lives to save others,

Have mercy,
on leaders and decision-makers
and grant them clarity
and decisiveness,
wisdom and effectiveness.

Have mercy,
on the souls of those who are swept away
by this great tragedy.

Empty day......

As my heart fails to find what to write,
My will, my ambition no longer strives to fight.
I sit here, with thoughts through my mind,
The answers not clear, so hard to find.
No more clarity in what one thinks,
But still able to write as a scribe in ink.
The pondering leads to empty stillness,
Longing for one thought, but end up thoughtless!
In the world today one walks alone,
Searching, wondering when they'll take the throne!
And the empty thoughts make them blank,
Living and dying for ones own sake.
As one lives in this world of ours,
No longer their heart, no longer their mind, but their wants are what empowers.
As my thoughts come to an end,
I have one message I'd like to send.
Do not only listen to your mind,
For the heart is what makes you kind.
Do not only listen to you heart,
For the mind is what sets you apart

Think Before You React

I reached the station at scheduled time to proceed towards my hometown and my train has started moving. It is packed with people of all ages, mostly with the working men and women and young college guys and gals. During that journey i had a experience which i want to share with u all. Near the window, a old man seated with his 30 year old son. As the train moves by, the son is overwhelmed with joy as he was thrilled with the scenery outside...

“See dad, the scenery of green trees moving away is very beautiful"

This behavior from a thirty year old son made the other people feels strange about him. Every one started murmuring something or other about this son."This guy seems to be a krack...” newly married guy whispered to his wife.

Suddenly it started raining... Rain drops fell on the travelers through the opened window. The Thirty year old son, filled with joy “see dad, how beautiful the rain is ..."

That persons wife got irritated with the rain drops spoiling her new suit.

Guy shouted," can't you see its raining, you old man, if ur son is not feeling well get him soon to a mental asylum...and don’t disturb public henceforth".

The old man hesitated first and then in a low tone replied " we are on the way back from hospital, my son got discharged today morning, he was a blind by birth, last week only he got his vision, these rain and nature are new to his eyes.. Please forgive us for the inconvenience caused....."

The things we see may be right from our perspective until we know the truth. But when we know the truth our reaction to that will hurt even us.....